I Am Not the Best Mom, but a Mom with Purpose

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I am not the best mom. I’m a good mom and a strong mom. I’m a take-no-shit kind of mom. I say things – inappropriate things, snarky things, tongue-in-cheek kinds of things. I go in my own direction in life. At times perhaps not the right direction, but it’s always with a purpose, nonetheless. But two things I excel at, two lessons I speak of ALL THE TIME to my girls who are 12 and 9, are as follows:

Number one: Be true to yourself.

Number two: Be intentional.

Number one is important for so many reasons and, as simple as it sounds it always isn’t easy. Humans by nature are judgmental and assuming. It can be difficult to hold your ground or speak your mind when it is against the grain or against the norm. It’s difficult at 46 and even more so at 9 or 12. I tell my girls, shoulders back, chin up and go rock whatever (shit) it is you’re about to do (within reason and not illegal obviously).

Number two is just as important and really goes hand-in-hand with number one. In today’s day and age of digital-first communications, whether it be via email, lobby screens, text messages, social media, or images, being intentional to your brand is vital. Your brand can be your personal image and what you choose for people to see about you. It can also be the image of your credit union or whatever industry/company you represent.

Personal image – whether you are 9, 12, or 46 is important. What you put out in the world is what you are choosing for people to see about you, which helps them make assumptions about you. Choosing what you show to the world on social media, in person, or in your actions allows people to create an image of you. What do you want them to see? What do you want them to believe? The world is filled with wannabes, big talkers, people or brands that hide behind illusions of what they really are. Where is truth behind the words? The images? The clever hashtags? The ACTIONS and BEHAVIORS.

Experiences are everything.

Are you leaving your members with the right impression? Are you creating an experience worth talking about? What is your brand image saying about you and your credit union? How does your front-end staff play into that image? What about your call center, your lending team, your collections department, your website, your member-facing communications and maybe even more importantly your INTERNAL communications?

To consistently deliver an A+ experience to your members, you must deliver an A+ experience to your employees. We have high expectations when it comes to employee delivered messages. We have high expectations with our ScoreCard measures and goals. We EXPECT our employees – our team – to show up and work daily, not just physically but mentally and with an upbeat positive attitude. This is a big ask.

What do you do every day to project a positive, member-first behavior? What do you do every day to put your shoulders back, your chin up, so you can go rock whatever (shit) you have to?  What are we doing to ensure that our employees deliver the correct message? In a manner that POSITIVELY reflects the image of the credit union? What are we doing to encourage our employees to have conversations with our members? What are we doing to make sure they understand the why of those conversations matter?

We are credit union people. THAT means something. THAT defines us. Defines me. I was once told that Credit Union people hug. I laughed but it is accurate. I DO put my shoulders back and I DO put my chin up when I say I work in Credit Union Land. We CARE. THAT is a difference.

Experiences are everything. At the end of the day, numbers will happen, goals will be met, testimonials will come, referrals will come IF you deliver a CONSISTENT, MEMBER-FIRST experience.

Automation. I talk about it often. I love automation. I believe in automation. BUT, I believe in automation for the sole purpose of the member experience and setting expectations of the member journey, product life cycle, or service attributes. Automation does not have to be about sales. Automation can be about education, about awareness, about benefits, about checking in. Automation can take the onus off the front-end, call center or lending team of being on-point and game-on ALL. THE. TIME. (They should be don’t get me wrong, but life does get in the way, and people have personalities as they should.)

Automation can, of course, serve other purposes as well include the dreaded cross-sales goals.

But it can also reduce expenses, deliver relevant timely message and increase efficiencies. Automation CANNOT replace the “hug” of the credit union, but it can enhance it.

When you are looking at your goals and budgets in 2020, ask “what will reaching this goal do TO enhance the member experience?” or, “how can I reach this goal BY enhancing the member experience.?” “What will increasing (or decreasing) do to or detract from the member experience?” I truly believe if the member experience is your priority the rest will fall into place.

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Reh Harvey

Vice President of Digital Strategy

Reh Harvey, our Vice President of Digital Strategy, leads with diligence and fervor. Having previously been a member of Team YMC, he is excited to return to such an amazing culture and even more amazing people (his words)! Through his experience in the marketing world, he’s found the key to success is to stay on the cutting edge and to always keep evolving.
Although originally drawn to marketing for its lack of math, Reh now finds himself doing more math than he would’ve bargained for. But his self discipline and positive attitude make it easy for him to laugh and take it in stride. Hoping to one day visit Japan and enjoy some premium Sushi, Reh lives life by his creed: Be a good human. Do good work. And above all, just keep going.

Hailey Madej

Graphic Designer

As YMC’s in-house Graphic Designer, Hailey possesses an eye for detail and a drive to innovate. It’s no surprise though since being creative runs in the family! Inspired from an early age by her mom’s work as a Graphic Designer, Hailey is a seasoned expert whose talents bring vitality and accessibility to every project. As a UX/UI designer, she expertly blends the intuitive and the creative for all to enjoy.
In addition to the occasional freelance project, Hailey also lends her abilities to supporting art initiatives within her community, such as the Belleville Mural Project. Her favorite aspect of joining the YMC team is the friendly, uplifting culture and breadth of design tasks. When it comes to marketing, she believes in pushing boundaries and maybe breaking some rules to capture her audience’s attention. Her advice to those just starting out? “Always seek quality over quantity.”

Dexter Ochoa

Development Assistant

When it comes to blending logical thinking and creative problem solving, Dexter’s abilities are undeniable! Beginning his career as a Web Developer, he’s no stranger to the wide world of Marketing and Advertising. Calling Biñan City in the Philippines home, Dexter has a burning desire to visit the Alpine peaks and valleys of Switzerland. While that journey may be far off, he is still no stranger to international travel. While visiting Japan, he was able to enjoy his favorite delicacy: Sushi and Sashimi. He also learned unexpected facts about Japanese Yen, specifically that it has special markings for the blind to know its value!

Whether he’s enjoying a cup of coffee in the morning or the occasional Pale Pilsen in the evening, Dexter is eager to work with the talented professionals of YMC, and we’re just as eager to add his talent to the team as well! His marketing words of wisdom? “Be creative, and just do what you want!”

Andrew Wyche


Hailing from the NC state capital (that’s Raleigh if you didn’t know), Andrew is YMC’s Copywriter extraordinaire. That’s why he knows that “The verb form of ‘reconnaissance’ is ‘reconnoiter.’ The former is, strictly speaking, a noun.” Seriously, he knows his words and he’ll use those words to get bold and weird (in a good way) with his copy. Fuelled by a love for pasta, shellfish, a good single malt, or a meal consisting of all three, Andrew navigates life with a motto engraved in his heart: “Choose kindness. Always.” It is this guiding principle that has led him to explore the realm of marketing, driven by a desire to connect with people in meaningful ways. As he continues to chase his dreams, one bucket list item stands out above the rest – a pilgrimage to Scotland. With his heart set on adventure and his pen poised for creativity, Andrew’s journey is far from over.

Alex VanHaasteren

Senior Web Developer

Alex is YMC’s Senior Web Developer and, as the title suggests, she is an absolute pro! While she initially started in graphic design – working long and hard to expertly bring concepts to life – she also felt drawn to technology and applying her natural ability to problem solve. Web Development proved the perfect blend of her creative passion and technical savvy.

When Alex is out with friends – including her YMC colleagues – she’s up for Greek cuisine or some good pulled pork BBQ washed down with Diet Coke. Or an Old Fashioned, if the occasion demands. Someday, she hopes to go to Africa on a safari. Hopefully she’ll see a giraffe in the wild, because – as she’s pointed out – its neck is too short to reach the ground!

When she isn’t jamming out to T-Swift, she’s happy to impart some marketing words of wisdom, “Aim to create something unforgettable.” For day-to-day inspiration, she would remind you of two fundamental truths: You decide your happiness, and Ice cream is its own food group—not just a dessert.

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